Be nice. Not obsessively, like stalking her and offering to do things all the time. When she's carrying something heavy, offer to take it for her. When she's wondering about the homework, offer to help her. This is called Chivalry. Use it - it makes girls feel special and highlights your masculinity. You'll look like a nice guy, and sweet girls tend to be more impressed by nice guys.
Smell good. Body odour is not good. Shower, and if you want, apply some scent. Use only a little. You want her to wonder what that wonderful smell is, not feel like she's getting hit over the head with it.
Talk Respectfully. Guys who swear and curse loudly are not impressive. It makes you sound immature, teenagers curse to look tough. Sound intelligent every once in a while, but don't be afraid to joke sometimes. A deep voice is great, especially when you're on the phone - practice!
Be confident, but don't be arrogant. Confidence is great, and if you make her laugh too you'll have a winning combination.
Shave. Bristles are not good. Take care of your skin. It makes you look clean and neat, not rough around the edges. Sweet girls tend to prefer well groomed guys, not ones who are a bit of a mess.
Some girls like it when you do well in school. Other girls think it is boring to have someone so intelligent. Let your girl be more intelligent than you. They like to correct you. (Be careful - make sure you have a backbone! If you're right then you can say so nicely, jokingly it will probably still be cute.)
Be yourself - no matter how sweet the girl you don't want to fake it because once you have her you'll want her to like you for who you are. Girls have differing tastes just like guys do. Don't fake the "bad boy" or any other archetype just be sincere and comfortable in your own skin. THAT is attractive.
Not all girls are the same, not even all "sweet" girls. Each have different tastes. So while your sweet girl may be crazy about guys with good grades, she might not mind that little bit of bristle you've got there. It varies.
Physical Activity makes you look good. Stay in shape and be active. You'll attract the kind of girl who does the same. Just don't look too obsessive.
This guide is not for sex, it is for proper relationships!
Most girls consider it cute for even the macho-est guy to blush and be shy about something. For example, anybody would be flustered while admitting 'I don't know how to dance.' Chances are she doesn't either, so either learn together or find an alternative.
Try too hard and you'll end up looking like a wuss.
Do not overdo the cologne.
This only works on the nice girls. If you're trying to get a tough girl to like you, take someone else's advice.
Don't change who you are. If you end up becoming a totally different person, you will not be happy.
Rough breakups occur when one person is faking something (interests/personality) and eventually they can't hold up the sham any longer
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