Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How to look good to a girl..??

Be healthy. A good complexion and healthy glow shows the opposite sex that you take care of yourself. Eat 5 or more portions of fruits and vegetables a day and drink plenty of water (8 glasses). Drinking orange or other fruit juices are good ways to achieve both goals.

Stay fit. Lift weights for at least 20 minutes every other day. This only works for girls who like buff, athletic guys. If you're more the brainy type, just keeping relatively fit (no flab) is enough. Also, regardless of your body type, "six-pack" abs seem to be universally considered good looking. Work on that as a priority by mixing aerobic exercise with ab exercises.
Find an exercise that works for you and do it as much as possible, for instance if you can do a situp or just dont like them then do crunches, even just small crunches will give you some results, just do it regularly and many of them. Or just google some exercises. Usually you can find professional tips on technique and form along with a variety of exercises.

Be well-groomed:
Shave regularly unless you like the scrubby look.

Shaving only below the jawline not only makes a beard look neat and groomed, it makes stubble look masculine rather than ungroomed.

Trim your nails.

Take care of your teeth. Brush, floss, and use mouthwash daily. See your dentist on a regular basis. Don't let your teeth get stained (with coffee and cigarettes, especially) and use whitening treatment if you still need help.

Shower every day. Girls might notice that you don't shower a lot and it's a big turn off to them.
If you have oily skin, be sure to rinse your face at least once a day to prevent a greasy shine and acne.

Use a deodorant with little scent such as SpeedStick & AXE or get a "matched" product that goes with a specific product line. Unscented soaps and lightly scented shampoos won't clash with colognes. Use an antiperspirant if you sweat excessively. Also trimming (not shaving) body hair may help control body odor.

Spraying cologne into the air and walking through the cloud is a waste. Apply two sprays to the chest, one on either wrist, do not rub your wrists together as this crushes the smell and damages it, and one to the back of the neck just below the hairline to create "spillage," a very light scent trail that lasts for five to ten seconds after you walk through an area.

This may sound unnecessary, but, wash your hands! It really turns a girl off when you walk up to her with grimy hands and fingernails. Girls also don't like guys who bite their fingernails. It's very unbecoming.

Take mints with you. Avoid bad breath foods like garlic and onions. (Note: some girls don't like minty breath so also look into non-minty alternatives like orange or cinnamon Tic-Tacs.)but DON'T use gum.Parsley is a strong breath mint and even clears bad odors from onions and the like which you may have eaten.

Ask others for feedback. Be aware that you may get conflicting feedback, especially with things such as clothing styles, hairstyles, and colognes. Work their opinions into your style, but ultimately, choose what makes you feel the most confident.

Be very aware of your posture: good posture will give you a confident aura. Girls appreciate confidence because it makes them feel they can rely on you to make good decisions. Good posture can also make you look taller & broader.

Dressing right can be very important to girls, but you don't have to go spending hundreds of dollars on the latest and greatest styles. A nice shirt and a clean pair of jeans is more than enough. Try a polo shirt, and some cool some what baggy, worn-looking jeans. Just be sure it's comfortable for you or else she'll pick up on your discomfort and think it's her.

Get a good amount of sleep! Looking tired and bleary eyed all the time is very unattractive, and tends to detract from the rest of your appearance as well. Not to mention, no one likes a cranky guy.

Learn to dance. If you show girls you know how to move, they're likely to be impressed with your skills and think you know how to do lots of other things. Even if you're not a great dancer, she'll be impressed with your confidence and lack of embarrassment.

Be confident about yourself! Confidence and other moods show through in your body language, and if you can't make the to effort and learn to love yourself, why should she?
Smile, especially if you have nice teeth. A positive attitude is a definite turn on, and most girls love a good grin.

Comfort her if she's having a bad day or simply needs a hug. If she cries in front of you it means that she trusts you with her feelings. Never tell her what she's worrying about is "stupid," though you should point it out gently if she's wrong.

A girl will be won over by subtle compliments, but be careful here. Only give compliments that you actually believe. She can usually tell if you're just making up lies to sweet talk her.
Looks aren't everything. What a girl wants is someone who listens, cares, understands her, and is a genuine nice person.

Girls don't like guys who over dress themselves. It doesn't look good to over dress yourself to look good for a girl, she will notice, and you may get embarrassed.

Make friends with a girl, and she might like you more, or this can cause the instant death of any further relationship which is much more likely.

For heavens sake have a JOB. Women like to know that you can be a provider and not a moocher. More often than not, she will not be after your money, but would feel more confident in opening up to someone who is able to take care of himself first.


mORE TIps



Looking good to a girl is more about good hygiene than anything else. If you think about that, it just makes sense. If a man doesn't take proper care of himself, how can he be expected to take care of her, or anything/anyone else?

Looks aren't everything. Find a girl who likes you for who you are, not your clothes, white teeth, and six-pack abs.

Show some class. Don't swear every other word, and don't make crude gestures. If you're not a gentleman, you won't get a lady.

Read the news, keep up on the latest books, so you can converse intelligently. An interesting and caring man will get the girl. Be sensitive, but not too sensitive.

For crying out loud, have fun. You'll be at your most attractive point when you're enjoying yourself and her company. Take her somewhere that makes you feel comfortable and even energetic. You don't have to wow her your first time hanging out with a fancy restaurant; for some of us, cheap Chinese food and a walk through the park bring out the best.

Get to know her friends; they'll help do some of the tough work for you by letting her know how cool you are, but don't get too close to them. She might think you only wanted her to get one of her friends.

Moving forward with a girl is a lot like rock-climbing (yes, rock-climbing). Take your time and make sure that both of you are comfortable with each other, and the state of your relationship before taking the next step.

It's usually not a good idea to ask a girl out on a date when she's only just getting to know you. Go out with groups of friends, so she can see you in a comfortable, relaxed setting. If she starts showing an interest (e.g. talking to you more than the other people there, pulling you away from the group, appearing really interested in what you say, laughing at your jokes, etc.) then it's time to ask her out. Now that you've got her attention, you've just got to be yourself!

As far as physical appearance goes, don't forget; not all girls like buff, muscled guys (but that doesn't mean you're supposed to quit on doing any exercise or sports - you want to be alive long enough for her don't you?) Too many times thin guys assume it's a turn off, and try to buff up. So, while you're packing on the weight, you could be losing the affection of the girl who loves your slender body!(Unless you're looking for a Chunky Chick, then by all means..get fat so you can bump bellies.)

Talk to her, be funny and sweet. Girls like a guy who can crack a joke but not be cruel.

If you're generally a tough guy, and you have a lot on your mind, don't be afraid to shed a tear or two. For starters, it may let her know you trust her, and that you aren't afraid to show your true feelings to her. Both of these are a big turn on. But be careful. Don't turn into a crybaby just to impress her.

Don't be such a timid person when you are around her. Girls like guys who can actually be in a group of people and not be shy(trust me, I've seen it). Express yourself and let her know your an outgoing guy. - maybe your not that outgoing you still must know somebody so in a group show her that you can hold a conversation with someone other than her, if you act like she's the only one in existance she may begin to think of you as a stalker because of you crowding her and only focusing on her.

And finally, don't try so hard. It's often obvious if you are doing everything to impress someone. Be yourself. If you aren't, it will come back to you later.



WARNINGS



Some girls are just not interested in you no matter what you do or say, so do not get discouraged, just move on.

Don't go overboard on the cologne. No matter how good it smells, too much of anything is bad.

There are also many essential oils that are quite masculine, these can normally be used straight, dabbed below and behind ears. Remember, girls like guys to be natural, so less is more here.

Some girls are allergic to scents and colognes will turn them off.

Never be loud and obnoxious unless the situation calls for it.

However, the situation will most probably never call for obnoxiousness.

Never insult her and never, ever discuss her or any other girl's weight.

Always make sure she's comfortable with the conversation you're in, and comfortable around you, never make her feel scared to talk to you, make her feel like she can trust you and tell you anything, or else, you're toast.

Never compete with a guy-friend for a girl, it's a tricky situation and usually ends in bitterness and could end up in you losing a very good friend...

Don't call her every night and every day and NEVER call her over and over, It could annoy her and turn her off.

Don't tell your friends to give her messages from you...If you really like her, talk to her yourself.

Don't confront her in front of her friends. This will only lead to putting her on the spot, and
making everyone feel uncomfortable.

3 comments:

Mujtaba said...

OMG this is such a cute and sweet blog

Mujtaba said...

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Divyanshu Chandola said...

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